Do you think you can effect social change by brow-beating and playing the blame game?

I don't, but it seems many people do. Especially feminist. I learned a long time ago, that crying, blaming others, etc. won't bring the change you want, so you have to change if you want see change. Like a white guy told me a long time ago, "yeah there is racism in this country, does that mean you sit around and do nothing and blame everything on the white man (others), or get your *** up and try to bring change yourself". Conversation changed my life. That white man was my 10th grade teacher.